Am I a loser because I didnt go away to college?

Question

Am I a loser because I didnt go away to college?
It seems like everyone in my class went away somewhere except me. i go to the community college. I dont know what I want to do, and I never liked the idea of dorming. Im not a big drinker and I think it would just be a bad match. Usually it doesnt bother me that I didnt go away, but I was just browsing facebook and saw that tons of my classmates are in big universities..

Answer

Nope. Doesnt make you a loser. You have to do whats right for you, based on all of your factors. And you have to take your time figuring out what you want to do with your life. Youre doing fine. brbrTry to get out of the habit of comparing yourself to everyone else, though. It will always lead you down the path of fear and self doubt, and theres nothing good down that path. All you have to do is visit one of your quotaway to a big universityquot friends for a weekend, and chances are youll find solid confidence in your own choice.